My Dearest Brother, Kind Heron, sent this out earlier to some of his mailing groups on the topic of:

21 things girls don't realize about guys

Actually, I got to disagree with this statement as there are really much more things that both genders don't really know or even realize about each other.

1) Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about
(I must say... it's usually very through. Firstly, what's the definition of flirting towards a girl or a guy? It differs a lot...!)

2) Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
(This is very true... they can take a long time to decide whether to love a girl, however it will take a longer time to let the girl go. Those aren't call weeps or sissy, but real man. Coz' they understand the meaning of loving the other partner!)

3) Guys go crazy over a girl's smile(:
(This is super duper true... what normally mesmerise a guy, is the smile of the girl that he loves... so smile more often, girls!)

4) A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

(Erm... you can call a guy an attention seeker or whatever, similar to girls... guys do need the girl he loves to talk to him more than other guys. If not... jealous might just be the common reason for breaking up...)

5) Giving a guy a hanging message like 'You know what?..uh...nevermind..' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
(Ok, who likes being hang in the air? Like what my suicide partner said... if you don't want to carry on or end it... don't even start it. It can really kill someone if you just leave things hanging around.)

6) If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
(I guess... this is applicable to both a guy and a girl. Like what Turtle said... the party would already have the answer to the problem faced. He or she just needs a listening ear.)

7) A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

(Very true... or else the guy would be very boring to go out with. Coz' he teases you, you would smile and laugh. That's what's he is going after...)

8) GUYS LOVE YOU MORE THEN YOU LOVE THEM!!!
(Erm... depends. Coz' there isn't equal love in this World anyway... but just don't go around comparing the amount of love in the relationship. It's more like love or not to love kinda question.... there isn't any middle feelings)

9) Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole heck of a lot.
(Not necessary... although I'm like that... my conclusion, there isn't much beautiful girls around. But they are just cute or hot... and there isn't any lousy looking girls around too!)

10)If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

(Very true... unless he force himself to not think about it. A guy will be a guy after all, image and ego is still a big factor when it comes to girls)

11)If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and he is really thinking about something

(Yeap, and most likely ... it would be very very serious, and chances are they wouldn't want you to question them about it as they do not want the girls to be worried or get all hype up about it)

12) When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is
Guys rarely say that
(Definition of crazy first... haha some may just go crazy blindly, while others with an intent)

13)When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, 'Please come and listen to me

(Erm, depends also... sometimes, guys would just like to be alone to straighten their thoughts at times. However, it would be most comforting for the girl he loves, to lay on him while he is troubled. Somehow, the trouble wouldn't be there anymore)

14)If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something is up.
(Yeap, agreed!! Don't try to joke when a guy is serious, as the temper is reaching its peak by then...)

15) When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking
something.
(Chances are either that you are too good looking that the guy just love looking at you and waiting for that smile... or you got something on your face that the guy just doesn't know how to put it across to you... haha)

16) Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them

(Well... I super agree... don't ask me why. I feel that all the time!)

17) A guy would give the world to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

(Haha, I wouldn't give the world, just my time... but chances are... I'm just plain lazy to think about it)

18)No guy can handle all his problems on his own.
He's just too stubborn to admit it
(Erm, another problem with ego and imagine... we got to appear strong somehow)

19 )NOT ALL GUYS ARE RUDE!!!
Just because ONE is RUDE doesn't mean he represents ALL of them
(I agree, just some a-hole decides to treat girls badly, it doesn't mean the rest would do so... so don't judge a guy so early. Guys are just wild when they try to tease you)

20)WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO TALK TO YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
(What can I say... 100% true... unless the guy is on the verge of collapsing...)

21)Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life

(Well... unless if the guy loves you in the first place...)

All comments made in red, are just personal opinions. It's okay to have differing thoughts and answers about it. After all, it's your life... You decide how you want to live it!

Cheers people!