29 October 2008

What's the worst thing to kill a relationship between the one you love? Jealousy? Communication breakdown? Pressure? "Controlled"?... These are the common factors that would kill a relationship in a matter of time.

However, an intangible factor that most people do not realise would kill a relationship is feeling bad towards each other. The ultimate root of cause, condemnation. Why so? When one of a couple starts to feel bad for lacking the ability to love or give the other party the best (based on their own standards), it would lead to the party feeling lousy and lack of confidence... after which, over time, the 'drifting phrase' would begun... thus leading to the common factors of communication breakdown and lack of understanding towards each other.

So how so to overcome the problem? STOP FEELING BAD, feel LOVE instead. There isn't any standards when it comes to loving each other. Sometimes, what you feel should be the best for your partner, may not be the case in the other party's eyes. And similarly, it can mean the other way round too. Thus, rules can be bent in a relationship...

I've seen friends giving up time, money, effort, smoking, bad habits for the sake of the other party. Good for them! Overcoming a bad habit isn't a really easy task. However, with the power of love... there isn't anything stopping to overcome it. However, at the end of the day, just don't crumble back to square 1 when things go array with your love one.

Saying you miss a girl or love a girl or want to be a girl, can be a split second event... Yes, it may not be easy. However, it takes a lot of effort and courage to overcome the fear of rejection by the one you love, to say such words. However, if you fail to say it in time, and starts to regret for that decision... it will take you a lifetime to overcome...

So what are you waiting for... if the girl or boy you like is standing there in front of you, just go ahead to express your love. It may be true love or platonic love, however isn't it better to express your feelings and lifting the burden off your chest?

And to those A-holes, who laugh off when someone express love towards you, you just missed the point of love. You missed the point of how happiness can be created through love. If love is just all about sex and games, well screw you! You'll just live a life going after such items through your meaning of 'love' instead of happiness through the true meaning of 'love'.

I love you, Suicide Partner

I love you, brothers and sisters and kiddies.

I love you, friends!

And I love you, for those who I will meet along the way in my journey on Earth.

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