The last paper has finally been completed. I smell the freedom that I have long awaited when I exit the examinations hall. However, the feeling was only short-lived as I begin smelling the horrors of my upcoming attachment. Well, some may call me lucky or whatever so, 1 guy with 6 girls. How much can I ask for? However, I still get nervous when going out with so many girls.
Well, after the examinations, 2 of my buddies decided to meet up for "coffee" and some talking session. This time, topics were rather sensitive, however I feel that all 3 of us did out best to be as honest as possible. After all, we are brothers for about 9 years now.
Is waiting for a person worthwhile? I do not know. What I pray for whenever I decide to wait for a particular person, is that the outcome of the relationship regardless if it is short-lived or long-term, will end up well. Sometimes, things do not go our way, but there is always trying. How long can I wait for the person? I do not know either. Maybe as long as my heart decides to wait? Maybe as long as the passion is still burning like a blue flame?
I used to laugh at one of my brothers, when they woo a girl that is younger than them. Looking back, as well as listening to the theory given by Jedi. I realised, there isn't much a matter of age gap that is a barrier in a relationship. His theory was that, as guys have to serve the nation (NS time), the girls who are of the same age would have proceed to the university or the working force. Thus, they (the girls) would meet guys that are older naturally. Similar, guys will meet girls that are younger than them.
I am not saying that guys and girls of the same age cannot last through a relationship. I am only theorizing about the situation. So, it wouldn't be surprising to see older guys dating younger girls. Those guys that completed their nation service, would encounter the same situation when they meet girls that are younger than them in university (generally). Thus the pattern is set.
This may seem random to most people. Anyway who cares if you date an older lady or younger lady? There'll always be people bad-mouthing and condemning on you. As long as you love the person, what else matters? Rules changes, cultures evolved, but as long as the love stay strong, it can overcomes.
For me, I'm willing to give it a try. To date someone new, someone unexpected... but am I ready for it? I do not know unit I try it out. There is no such thing as a confirm situation or relationship until you try it out. I guess I slip by too many chances if there were any for me. This time, I would treasure it.
I kinda understand why some arranged marriage are successful. It may seem that the parents forced upon their children to marry a selected partner, that they deem fitting for their child. However, if the couple is open and willing to believe that their relationship can work out, they will enjoy each other's company. And maybe, love will soon blossom. Ain't that a happy ending? I do not know.
So many things to think about... so many factors to weigh. If only the right one could appear and be there for me, as I would for her... ain't that great?
Well, after the examinations, 2 of my buddies decided to meet up for "coffee" and some talking session. This time, topics were rather sensitive, however I feel that all 3 of us did out best to be as honest as possible. After all, we are brothers for about 9 years now.
Is waiting for a person worthwhile? I do not know. What I pray for whenever I decide to wait for a particular person, is that the outcome of the relationship regardless if it is short-lived or long-term, will end up well. Sometimes, things do not go our way, but there is always trying. How long can I wait for the person? I do not know either. Maybe as long as my heart decides to wait? Maybe as long as the passion is still burning like a blue flame?
I used to laugh at one of my brothers, when they woo a girl that is younger than them. Looking back, as well as listening to the theory given by Jedi. I realised, there isn't much a matter of age gap that is a barrier in a relationship. His theory was that, as guys have to serve the nation (NS time), the girls who are of the same age would have proceed to the university or the working force. Thus, they (the girls) would meet guys that are older naturally. Similar, guys will meet girls that are younger than them.
I am not saying that guys and girls of the same age cannot last through a relationship. I am only theorizing about the situation. So, it wouldn't be surprising to see older guys dating younger girls. Those guys that completed their nation service, would encounter the same situation when they meet girls that are younger than them in university (generally). Thus the pattern is set.
This may seem random to most people. Anyway who cares if you date an older lady or younger lady? There'll always be people bad-mouthing and condemning on you. As long as you love the person, what else matters? Rules changes, cultures evolved, but as long as the love stay strong, it can overcomes.
For me, I'm willing to give it a try. To date someone new, someone unexpected... but am I ready for it? I do not know unit I try it out. There is no such thing as a confirm situation or relationship until you try it out. I guess I slip by too many chances if there were any for me. This time, I would treasure it.
I kinda understand why some arranged marriage are successful. It may seem that the parents forced upon their children to marry a selected partner, that they deem fitting for their child. However, if the couple is open and willing to believe that their relationship can work out, they will enjoy each other's company. And maybe, love will soon blossom. Ain't that a happy ending? I do not know.
So many things to think about... so many factors to weigh. If only the right one could appear and be there for me, as I would for her... ain't that great?
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