Humans in Relationship

As I travelled to school today in the wee hours of the morning, I was thinking what to expect in my lesson on understanding relationship. Honestly, I was cursing and swearing that I have to reluctantly choose this module, as the better ones were all snatched up. I prayed to the Father asking Him to allow me to learn something new that will help me in my relationship with my family, friends and the one I love.

Basically, I was very quiet in class despite seeing familiar faces. I felt kind of alone in a sense but yet the lecturer make it kinda comfy, I guess. I found that his style of lecturing is kind of unique as it not only covers what he needs to teach but he incorporates a movie that suits the entire module. The movie will be split into different parts to suit the lessons. Well, I thought the movie was some old crappy opera about love and romance, those Romeo and Juliet type of shows. But it was kinda light and yet a little cheesy. The movie is "Before Sunrise", a 1995 released movie. About how an America guy met this French woman and they have less than 24 hrs to spend with each other before he got to leave the country.

Well, as the lesson goes on, my eyes and mind starts to open more, things that I thought I knew start to appear before me again in a new light. Such as what a woman looks for and what a man looks for? And the moral of the story for the day: "Humans need love and is insanely obsess with it. Without it, it will be a torture to live each day." Yeap, I agree on it. No man or woman living in this puny planet called Earth, doesn't hope to be attached to someone they love and such.

Well so much so for understanding relationship as my thoughts got more into the lessons when it comes to conflicts and scenario-based case study. Well, quoted from my lecturer: "Jealousy is like sambal chili, a little of it is nice at times, but too much of it will over-kill. If the couple do not get jealous, it shows how much insignificant they are towards each other." True, isn't it? (I need opinions)

Finally, he mentioned that woman tends to be more towards love when looking for a relationship and guys more to sex. Well I don't know how true is that, but I do not definitely ask a girl about sex on our first meeting or date. Maybe when we are closer, as in understanding and accepting that we are meant for each other. I just don't understand why some humans can ask for sex with any girls or tom, dick or harry in the street. Don't they feel uncomfortable when ever trying to hug or kiss them?

So, what do humans really look for in a relationship or when even finding a life-time partner? Here are some of the top few choices based on surveys.

1) Understanding
2) Easy-going (friendly)
3) Humor ...

Well, maybe when I am better prepared and ready for it, I might just be stuck in a whirl of confusion and meaningless fights against myself. But nevertheless, I will continue to pursue and not give up. Until maybe, just maybe the black rose fades away.