Crush
Been up and early today and manage to heard from Dan and Yang (98.7 FM DJs) about confessions and crush from listeners. Well most of the listeners were bold enough to briefly describe the crush they had as well as who the person is. However, some people are just beyond help when it comes to having a crush on someone.
They'll go crazy or completely immerse into it and lost their sense of rights and wrongs. Anyway, there was this particular listener that commented that he had a crush on this lady that he recently knew, however he had two problems that he is facing. Firstly, he is way older than her, but this is actually okay if the two persons actually don't mind the age gap. However, the second problem, which is very, very super disturbing is that he is a married man with a wife and a son. When I heard it, I was like @#$#@ (cursing) ... How can you do this to your wife and family?
But when one of the DJs commented something, it made me think about crushes that people have. A crush you had for someone can lead two ways:
1) into an unexplored relationship between the stranger and you or maybe your long time best friend and you.
2) it is just a passing feeling that will go away after time.
Well, I don't know how true these are, but for me, if I have a crush for a person (girl obviously!), it would normally be a passing feeling. Unless, that particular girl has made a big impact in my life. Sadly, none of these have happen before.
I tend to miss several stages of mostly everything. An example, I don't have a crush for the girl that I love. I just simply love her. Another example is that I don't get high and go crazy when drinking. I'll just sit back and fall asleep. Well, I have yet to find out the rest, but I'm cool with it, as it makes my life simpler and easier to live.
As I'm reading New Creation Church's news devotional messages by Pastor Prince. God seems to answer what I have been always searching for. Sometimes, it's so amazing that your Father knows what you are thinking, and place a message somewhere to remind you of stuff or provide you with answers. Here is an extract of what is being written:
"Let me give you another illustration. Let’s say a man, whose wife has left him, looks to Jesus to bring his wife back. Christ, the power of God, brings about a miraculous restoration of their marriage. But it is Christ, the wisdom of God, who will teach the husband how to keep his wife by showing him what he had done wrong and what to do to strengthen the marriage. If the husband does not have this wisdom, it will only be a matter of time before the same problems surface and the wife leaves him again. "
(Citation: http://www.newcreation.org.sg/resources/dailydevotion/dailydevo.asp)
Well, I hope this will happen too! Wisdom for me to make the relationship a better one each passing time and moment. Don't anyone hope to make your love relationship better each time you meet or spend quality time together with?
Cheers to all happy couples out there and Rejoice to those who are facing problems in your relationships as there is someone that you can look up to to make your relationship a better one!
They'll go crazy or completely immerse into it and lost their sense of rights and wrongs. Anyway, there was this particular listener that commented that he had a crush on this lady that he recently knew, however he had two problems that he is facing. Firstly, he is way older than her, but this is actually okay if the two persons actually don't mind the age gap. However, the second problem, which is very, very super disturbing is that he is a married man with a wife and a son. When I heard it, I was like @#$#@ (cursing) ... How can you do this to your wife and family?
But when one of the DJs commented something, it made me think about crushes that people have. A crush you had for someone can lead two ways:
1) into an unexplored relationship between the stranger and you or maybe your long time best friend and you.
2) it is just a passing feeling that will go away after time.
Well, I don't know how true these are, but for me, if I have a crush for a person (girl obviously!), it would normally be a passing feeling. Unless, that particular girl has made a big impact in my life. Sadly, none of these have happen before.
I tend to miss several stages of mostly everything. An example, I don't have a crush for the girl that I love. I just simply love her. Another example is that I don't get high and go crazy when drinking. I'll just sit back and fall asleep. Well, I have yet to find out the rest, but I'm cool with it, as it makes my life simpler and easier to live.
As I'm reading New Creation Church's news devotional messages by Pastor Prince. God seems to answer what I have been always searching for. Sometimes, it's so amazing that your Father knows what you are thinking, and place a message somewhere to remind you of stuff or provide you with answers. Here is an extract of what is being written:
"Let me give you another illustration. Let’s say a man, whose wife has left him, looks to Jesus to bring his wife back. Christ, the power of God, brings about a miraculous restoration of their marriage. But it is Christ, the wisdom of God, who will teach the husband how to keep his wife by showing him what he had done wrong and what to do to strengthen the marriage. If the husband does not have this wisdom, it will only be a matter of time before the same problems surface and the wife leaves him again. "
(Citation: http://www.newcreation.org.sg/resources/dailydevotion/dailydevo.asp)
Well, I hope this will happen too! Wisdom for me to make the relationship a better one each passing time and moment. Don't anyone hope to make your love relationship better each time you meet or spend quality time together with?
Cheers to all happy couples out there and Rejoice to those who are facing problems in your relationships as there is someone that you can look up to to make your relationship a better one!
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